{"id":233,"date":"2014-12-18T16:15:09","date_gmt":"2014-12-18T16:15:09","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/horizoncentre.ca\/?page_id=233"},"modified":"2020-12-04T18:35:33","modified_gmt":"2020-12-04T18:35:33","slug":"interet-et-inspiration","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/horizoncentre.ca\/fr\/interet-et-inspiration\/","title":{"rendered":"Int\u00e9r\u00eat et inspiration"},"content":{"rendered":"

\n\t\tDANS QUEL GENRE DE RELATION \u00caTES-VOUS?\n\t<\/h2>\n\t\t

LA D\u00c9PENDANCE<\/h3>\t\t\n\t\t\t

\u00e9puisement, fatigue, b\u00e9quille, perte d\u2019\u00e9quilibre, parano\u00efa.<\/p>\n\t\t

L\u2019\u00c9TOUFFEMENT<\/h3>\t\t\n\t\t\t

aucun mouvement, \u00e9touffant et incapacit\u00e9 de s\u2019\u00e9panouir sur les plans mental, physique, affectif et spirituel.<\/p>\n\t\t

LE PI\u00c9DESTAL<\/h3>\t\t\n\t\t\t

d\u00e9s\u00e9quilibre des pouvoirs, impressions irr\u00e9alistes et manque de communication, absence de sentiments.<\/p>\n\t\t

LE MA\u00ceTRE ET L\u2019ESCLAVE<\/h3>\t\t\n\t\t\t

vue comme un objet qui \u00ab appartient \u00bb \u00e0 quelqu\u2019un, propri\u00e9taire unique, manque d\u2019ind\u00e9pendance et de croissance, \u00ab C\u2019est moi qui m\u00e8ne, c\u2019est moi qui prends les d\u00e9cisions et tu es ici \u00e0 mon profit. \u00bb<\/p>\n\t\t

UNE PENSION DE FAMILLE<\/h3>\t\t\n\t\t\t

routine, communications limit\u00e9es, aucune intimit\u00e9, la relation est en train de \u00ab s\u2019\u00e9teindre \u00bb.<\/p>\n\t\t

LE MARTYR<\/h3>\t\t\n\t\t\t

culpabilit\u00e9, manque de communication ou communication \u00e0 sens unique.<\/p>\n

\n\t\t\u00caTES-VOUS DANS UNE RELATION MALSAINE?\n\t<\/h2>\n\t

R\u00e9pondez \u00e0 ce petit questionnaire et d\u00e9couvrez-le.<\/p>\n\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\tFAITES LE QUIZZ\n\t\t\t<\/a>\n\t

\n\t\t\t\tLA D\u00c9CLARATION DES DROITS DES FEMMES\n\t\t\t<\/h3>\nJ\u2019ai le droit de ne pas \u00eatre maltrait\u00e9e.
\nJ\u2019ai le droit de ne pas \u00e9prouver de col\u00e8re en raison des vol\u00e9es.\n

J\u2019ai le droit de changer la situation.<\/p>\n

J\u2019ai le droit de ne pas craindre la violence.<\/p>\n

J\u2019ai le droit de solliciter de l\u2019aide aupr\u00e8s de la police et des organismes sociaux et de m\u2019attendre \u00e0 recevoir cette aide.<\/p>\n

J\u2019ai le droit de partager mes sentiments et de ne pas \u00eatre isol\u00e9e.<\/p>\n

J\u2019ai le droit de vouloir un meilleur mod\u00e8le de communication pour mes enfants.<\/p>\n

J\u2019ai le droit d\u2019\u00eatre trait\u00e9e comme une adulte.<\/p>\n

J\u2019ai le droit de fuir un milieu violent.<\/p>\n

J\u2019ai le droit au respect de ma vie priv\u00e9e.<\/p>\n

J\u2019ai le droit de perfectionner mes propres talents et aptitudes.<\/p>\n

J\u2019ai le droit d\u2019exprimer mes propres id\u00e9es et sentiments.<\/p>\n

J\u2019ai le droit de poursuivre en justice mon conjoint violent.<\/p>\n

J\u2019ai le droit d\u2019\u00eatre parfaite.<\/p>\n\t

\n\t\t\t\tFACTORS IN A HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP\n\t\t\t<\/h3>\n
    \n
  • Trust<\/li>\n
  • Honesty, spontaneity<\/li>\n
  • Openness<\/li>\n
  • Understanding<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n
      \n
    • Flexibility\/compromise<\/li>\n
    • Clear boundaries<\/li>\n
    • Growth<\/li>\n
    • Acceptance of self, partner and relationship<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n
        \n
      • Respect<\/li>\n
      • Intimacy, spirituality<\/li>\n
      • Commitment is an active choice<\/li>\n
      • Space<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n
          \n
        • Individuality<\/li>\n
        • Affirmations<\/li>\n
        • Equality\/shared power<\/li>\n
        • Risks taken by both parties<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\t

          \n\t\t\t\tFACTORS IN AN UNHEALTHY RELATIONSHIP\n\t\t\t<\/h3>\n
            \n
          • Lack trust; jealousy may be present<\/li>\n
          • Abuser only sees what he\/she wants to see, deceives the partner and self<\/li>\n
          • Closed, private, unwilling to share anything about one\u2019s own thoughts, wants and emotions<\/li>\n
          • No effort is made to become aware of the significant other\u2019s needs, feelings, wants<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n
              \n
            • Inflexible; compromise occurs only when abuser\u2019s demands are met, or during the honeymoon phase<\/li>\n
            • Unclear, diffuse boundaries, as if both partners are one; victim sacrifices all identity and individuality<\/li>\n
            • Stagnation; intimacy becomes a routine chore.<\/li>\n
            • Little or no acceptance of self, partner or relationship<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n
                \n
              • Belief that one partner is godlike while other is worthless; respect demanded by abuser but abuser gives none in return<\/li>\n
              • No warm feelings; intimacy is like a chore; fear is present; force may be used<\/li>\n
              • Both partners are committed only to one person\u2019s needs; victim feels trapped<\/li>\n
              • Victim is expected to spend all free time with abuser; may give up friends, family, school, job; victim feels isolated<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n
                  \n
                • Differences not respected and growth not fostered<\/li>\n
                • Given only when victim gives in to demands or during honeymoon phase<\/li>\n
                • A one-up, on-down situation; force and coercion are used. Physical, psychological and sexual violence may occur.<\/li>\n
                • Victim afraid to express emotions, wants or needs for fear of further abuse.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

                  DANS QUEL GENRE DE RELATION \u00caTES-VOUS? LA D\u00c9PENDANCE \u00e9puisement, fatigue, b\u00e9quille, perte d\u2019\u00e9quilibre, parano\u00efa. L\u2019\u00c9TOUFFEMENT aucun mouvement, \u00e9touffant et incapacit\u00e9 de s\u2019\u00e9panouir sur les plans mental, physique, affectif et spirituel. LE PI\u00c9DESTAL d\u00e9s\u00e9quilibre des pouvoirs, impressions irr\u00e9alistes et manque de communication, absence de sentiments. LE MA\u00ceTRE ET L\u2019ESCLAVE vue comme un objet qui \u00ab appartient…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":595,"parent":0,"menu_order":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","template":"","meta":{"footnotes":""},"class_list":["post-233","page","type-page","status-publish","has-post-thumbnail","hentry"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/horizoncentre.ca\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/233","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/horizoncentre.ca\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/horizoncentre.ca\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/page"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/horizoncentre.ca\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/horizoncentre.ca\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=233"}],"version-history":[{"count":9,"href":"https:\/\/horizoncentre.ca\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/233\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":623,"href":"https:\/\/horizoncentre.ca\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/233\/revisions\/623"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/horizoncentre.ca\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/595"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/horizoncentre.ca\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=233"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}